Rules of Attraction
Personally I've wondered why people, especially us women, have been putting up rules and guidelines in dating and romance. Since seeing what is out there i do not have to wonder anymore. We have developed a universal way of trying not to get heartbroken. Three basic rules :
- Treat other people the way you would like to be treated. Would you like to be lied to in the face? No. Would you like to be second to anything ? No. So why the heck would you DO IT to someone else!
- Keep a Balance. On the first date you don't want to be a snow queen, try to open up a bit, BUT it's not like you're gonna open your legs to him. Also do not make him the center of your universe because even the sun has an experation date.
- Go with your gut AND your mind. If you are attracted to a guy don't just jump on him without knowing what you are getting yourself into.Try to observe his behaivor first and then see if you're still attracted to him. JUST DON'T GO ALL STALKER ON HIM.